Tuesday, March 9, 2010

1st to Tie the Knot

CCC, my primary school classmate is the first to become someone else husband and a daddy!

Congrats to him!!

yes, his wife is pregnant and soon deliver him a baby boy. i think his parents would be so happy since most chinese like baby boy. is it all or just most chinese now??

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well, last time, if you can't give birth to a baby boy, your evil mother-in-law will start questioning about you or even scold you for not being able to give them a boy to inherit their family name, worst if your husband is their only son. and it is all your fault. then she will start hating you and made you into her slave and also encourage her son to find a new wife or even anyhow sleep with anyone who can give birth to a boy, then kick you out of the family or you just end up being a slave forever. while the one with babyboy had the priority to live life like a princess. Stupid mother-in-law who never knew that it's their son who cannot produce enough Y chromosomes to make a man and simply blame the wife.now who to blame?? your own son!

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i am not making any stories, these are facts. you can just watch from any old chinese drama.

okay okay, mother-in-laws now are not as demanding as the ritual ones

i hope my future mother-in-law treats me like her own daughter ;)

captured early in the morning! Yes, EARLY!!!

it's only 3a.m.

Somebody suppose to pick me up at 1 something changes to 12am sharp!

and i did not have chance to even sleep!! went swimming with friends that evening and was totally exhausted!! just because im curious about the wedding, you know, chinese wedding culture is a lot of machiam, lots of things to prepare etc.. if not, i won't force myself to get involve in this..
even my mom said we are crazy! who goes to help out early in the a.m.!!
because the bride's house is super far from the groom's house which takes about 1.5 hour to 2 to get there. NOT NEAR at all !! we had to depart earlier to make sure we are still on time.. said 3 am by the groom!
and guess what!!
he made a mistake!!! gahhh
horror to us! yes, to me and my another friend, Mr Eric!! we did not had enough sleep.. no! NO sleep at all and we finally found out that the time to depart changes from 3 am to 4.30am!!
sigh!! if we knew it, we will just sleep at home and come at 3am.. at least few hours of sleep needed for this long day!
Argh!! enough of complains.. im not here to complain.. sorry! =.=
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Im a good girl that day!
i helped out a bit by decorating oranges with ribbons.. hahahah :P
what?! nobody wants to even bother bout this lehh..see! im so concern!!
even the groom is like very very absent minded! and childish i added!! in such hour he is still happy gambling not knowing today is his big day!!
he even forget to take the bride's bouquet!!
and need us to remind him almost everything! like as if this is our wedding.. *shook head*

cheers to the brothers!! mind you im his 'brother'!!

taken at the bride's house. returning for tea ceremony after the groom's.
super tired i slept in the car on the way there

Eric and ME with his bowl of 'snowballs'
i never knew why people served tang yuans/snowballs during their wedding. it's not the winter solstice festival.

with his lunch!
and later that night i attended his weddind dinner after a 3 hours sleep. still not enough lo!!
went home at 3 something pm. almost 4 pm la! and head straight to bed after removing makeup
i miss my bed a LOT!
his sisters at the dinner
both dress up like as if they are getting married too.. LOL
look at me! i don't even bother to put on makeup that night.. haha and i dressed like a bee
super tired la, what do you expect!! i just woke up and bath a bit then my driver came..
not enough sleep and my day to transform into a panda draws closer!! i need eye cream!! dark eye circles please go away!!!! i am ugly enough already
nah!! here i presents you the groom and his bride!!
it's best not to use makeup! wanna know why?? ;P
how can you trying to look pretty than the bride!! that's her big day and she should be prettier than anyone else! so dress up like me and smile like a pathetic when your in a picture with the stars! okay?? no? LOL

our table!!
food served is not bad. we are all happily nom-ing!!
see how messy our table is?? XD
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Happy Wedding!!
Uncle CCC,
Time to grow up okay!!
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